Jack Barsky—born Albrecht Dittrich—was a sleeper agent for the KGB, operating in the United States from 1978 to 1988. He was exposed after the Cold War, after which he became a resource for US counterintelligence agencies who allowed him to remain in the United States. What was life like as a sleeper agent? How did Jack employ persuasion and influence to gather intel for the KGB? What ultimately led him...
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Brian Ahearn’s first book, “Influence PEOPLE: Powerful Everyday Opportunities to Persuade that are Lasting and Ethical,” is a heavy psychology and business book. Brian points out that a lot of people won’t pick up a sales book, like his second book, “Persuasive Selling.” So he decided to try his hand at writing a business parable, “The Influencer.” He wanted to teach people the same principles of influence but do so...
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Joe Valley has built, bought, and sold over a half-dozen of his own companies. After selling his last eCommerce business, he joined the company that sold it—Quiet Light. Then Joe became a partner in the company. Since he’s joined, he’s personally sold $100 million in total transactions. Joe has seen deals fall apart—and other deals exceed all expectations—because of how people behave. What’s the secret to winning a deal when...
LISTEN NOWWhen you feel anger rising within you, what do you do? How do you keep your temper from flaring when you’re embroiled in a frustrating negotiation? As she launched her career, Svitlana Kalitsun quickly realized that lawyers don’t know how to negotiate (by no fault of their own). They’re not taught proper negotiation skills. Svitlana’s mission is to help change the way lawyers negotiate—including mastering their emotions. She shares some...
LISTEN NOWIt’s hard to think about influence and persuasion without feeling like you’re doing something morally reprehensible, right? In this throwback episode of Negotiations Ninja, Chris Hadnagy talks about his book, “Human Hacking: Win Friends, Influence People, and Leave Them Better Off for Having Met You.” He dives into some of the tactics—based on Cialdini’s Principles of Influence—that he uses to ethically influence people. Believe it or not, it IS possible...
LISTEN NOW“Mr. Schmooze” (Cody Lowry) is back to explain what Schmooze is and why you need it in sales, procurement, and negotiations. It comes down to three simple factors that make you indispensable to the people you serve. 1 - Build relationships. 2 - Be trustworthy. 3 - Never let them down. Listen to this Flashback episode to find out how Cody develops relationships with clients that last 30+ years, when...
LISTEN NOWInfluence can seem like a mysterious thing until you have someone who understands it explain it to you in easy-to-understand terms. That’s what Phil Jones does in his book, Exactly What to Say: The Magic Words for Influence and Impact. Consider it to be a “how-to” manual for influence. The good news is that Phil unpacks that goodness for you on this “throwback” episode from our Negotiations Ninja archives. Listen....
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Selling has changed over the last few years. No longer can we depend on the face to face opportunities to build rapport and gain trust. Virtual is the new thing and we have to adapt if we are going to survive as sales professionals. My guest on this episode is Steve Brossman, a former National Professional Track Champion, so he knows what it takes to compete and win and he...
LISTEN NOWAre you a good listener? In this throwback, Dr. Mark Goulston will probably persuade you otherwise. Did you know that you can talk over, at, to, or with someone? Which one is actually listening—and what should you be doing? Dr. Mark Goulston can help you transform the way you communicate. Listen to this episode of Negotiations Ninja for some of his best communication tips. Be sure to pick up his...
LISTEN NOWIn April 2020 we had a great conversation about how the COVID-19 pandemic was impacting negotiation. Now, over 6 months later, the world of negotiation is still evolving. Were Keld’s predictions true? Has the latest and greatest technology available on the market improved the outcomes of negotiations? Check out this throwback to see how far we’ve come in half a year—and learn what still applies to current negotiation strategy. (more…)
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